How To Use This Book

A Guide For Children & Grown Ups

Stevie Whitby

9/25/20252 min read

woman reading book leaning on green grass field
woman reading book leaning on green grass field

This book isn’t just a story - it’s an adventure, a journal, and a guide all rolled into one! It’s designed to help children explore feelings, celebrate their uniqueness, and connect with their minds and bodies. And it’s also here to help grown-ups support that journey in fun and meaningful ways.

The best part? There’s no “right” way to use this book. You can read it alone, together with someone special, or in your own favorite space. Every approach is perfect if it feels good for you.

For Children..

1. Dive into the Adventure

Each chapter is packed with surprises, challenges, and excitement. Read at your own pace - no rush! You can:

Curl up somewhere cozy and read alone

Share the adventure with a friend, sibling, or grown-up

Explore in your own special space, whether that’s a treehouse, a blanket fort, or your bedroom

2. Feather Journal Prompts & Creativity

At the end of every chapter, you’ll find a Feather Journal with prompts. These are little invitations to:

Reflect on your feelings

Imagine new possibilities

Connect the story to your life

And don’t forget - you can write notes, doodle, or even color in the pages if you like! Make it your own creative space.

3. Listen to Your Body

Your body talks to you all the time. Excited? Nervous? Curious? Pay attention to how you feel in different moments of the story. This helps you understand yourself better - inside and out.

4. Celebrate Being Different

The character show's that being different isn’t a problem - it’s a power. Use these stories to remind yourself that your unique traits are something to be proud of.

For Grown-Ups..

1. Create a Shared Experience

You can read the book together with your child or let them read independently in their own space. Pause to chat about the story, the choices characters make, and how they handle challenges. This sparks conversation and helps children process emotions.

2. Support Journal Activities

Encourage your child to explore the Feather Journal pages. You can join in or gently guide them if they’re unsure. Remember: the goal is exploration, not perfection.

3. Model Reflection and Empathy

Show children how to notice their own thoughts and feelings. Discuss alternative ways they could handle situations, and explore how lessons from the story might apply to real life.

4. Celebrate Individuality

Use the book to highlight the beauty of differences. Talk about strengths, perspectives, and qualities that make each person unique - helping your child feel confident and proud of who they are.

5. Incorporate Into Daily Life

Encourage children to apply the lessons from the story:

Celebrate small wins

Practice saying no kindly

Notice and respond to body signals and emotions

No matter how you read it - alone, together, or in exactly your own way - this book is a chance to explore, reflect, and grow. Every chapter is a little adventure that helps us celebrate the joy of being uniquely ourselves.